Wednesday, October 31, 2007

I'm alive

Good Afternoon all my blogger friends. I know I haven't been on in forever I still dont have a way to update this but will find a way some how. I am doing ok. I can say I have had much better times. I miss home like crazy. My sister is returning to the mainland (ie Texas). So its going to be lonely here in the paradise island of Hawaii. We have done alot since we've been here. I am sad but content in my life as well. I'm not going to lie it has taken alot out of me. So for now God Bless. I love ya'll and miss ya.

I Love Him-Kattie

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Today's the Day!!

Well I fly out in a few hours and I am so emotional. I want to go but honestly I really don't. Jeff is getting promoted the 1st of November praise God. I'm so proud of him.... Everyone has been so good to me and I am very thankful for all of you. I didn't realize how hard it is to say bye. I balled most of the day yesterday because I was unable to spend the time I wanted with the people I wanted because I was running my sister all over highwater.. Well I will miss all of you and my home is open to everyone of you that wish to come to Hawaii. The off season for Hawaii tickets are in aug.. oct... nov.. dec. and jan so thats plenty of time to come see us. I just can't seem to find the words to say. I love all of you and will be writing soon. For now.. Good luck and Love ya


I Love Him- Kattie

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Monday, October 15, 2007

Tagged a Meme about My Man

Tagged by Suzanne tagged me .. Here goes.

!. Who is your man? Jeffrey McFadden know as Jeff for short

2.How long have you been together? 6 1/2

3. How long did you date? 1 year

4. How old is your man? 23 until december then he wont be able to say "Your older than me"

5. Who eats more? I honestly would have to say him for now. I use to be able to out eat him but I haven't been able to lately.

6. Who said "I Love You" first? He did it was the day I got flowers from my mother saying she wouldnt be at my graduation.

7. Who is taller? Jeff definately

8. Who sings better? We both are horrible singers so I can't really say. I would say if jeff practice he would be better.

9. Who is smarter? By test I would say Jeff. But common sense and life - Me.

10. Whose temper is worse? I'm gonna go ahead and claim that one most definately me.

11. Who does that laundry? Well Me and Me. Jeff does know how I like it though so if I'm sick he will do it, however that takes alot though He will be doing his own for the next 6 months I'd like to see how this is gonna work.

12. Who takes out the garbage? We both do.

13. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? I do

14. Who pays the bills? I do more than he does, but he does occasionally.

15. Who is better with the computer? I would have to say me for now but jeff will be when he gets done with school.

16. Who mows the lawn? We both do. It is Jeff's chore but I always feel bad so I go help

17. Who cooks dinner? I would have to say me 89% of the time Jeff will make a side dish but you have to ask him 100times so and occasionally he will decide that he wants to cook.

18. Who drives when you are together? He does.

19. Who pays when you go out? He always puts down the card or money but it comes out of the same account.

20. Who is the most stubborn? MMMM this is hard I would have to say both because we both are bull headed and want our ways over the other person.

21. Who is the first to admit they are wrong? I am usually

22. Whose parents do you see the most? Definatly his.

23. Who kissed who first? I would have to say Jeff

24. Who asked who out? Jeff asked me out on Prom night after we had been dating for 6 months

25. Who proposed? He did

26. Who is more sensitive? Even though I hate to admit it I am.

27. Who has more friends? I would have to say him. I like to stay to myself but have really close friends a few that is.

28. Who has more siblings? Jeff has two younger brothers and a younger sister. I have 2 sisters on my moms side and 2 brothers on my dads. So I win that one by 1.

29. Who wears the pants in the family? I'm stilling Suzanne's and Mandi's answer. I like to think I'm wearing them but when it comes down to it He does.

3 Days to go

Yesterday, was my last day of church. Boy does time fly bye!! I'm doing well and finally starting to be content with the idea. Im not as nervous as I was. It was hard to look into some of the people from church that have just reached out to us. I love you guys and going to miss all of you and all of you are more than welcome to come stay with us in Hawaii and I hope some of you take us up on this offer. I have decided that I'm going to teach my sister how to cook since she has burnt chicken in the microwave.. So this means that I am going to have to have patience and I dont have that but on the up sude if I am able to learn new recipes and actually spend real quality time with my sister, and during this God willing and only if it is God's will I will truly be able to show her my faith and learn what her's is. I kinda know but not real sure. When she moved to Dallas she cused alot and i mean every other word and know that she knows it offends me she doesnt cus so much but at the same time she came here listening to hard rap that you hardly could understand and now she listens to KLTY which is a blessing in itself. So Jeff and I are doing well. Ali you are so right the devil works in all kinds a ways to break between the two of us. The last couple of days we have fought about petty stuff that doesn't matter. We are going to make this work there is no exception we made it through recruiting which puts your marriage through so many problems. I wish that it wasn't recruiting but everyone that comes out here and I would say 90% of them get divorced. So we've made it through the hard stuff. I look forward to a new chapter in our lives in Hawaii. We don't plan to have kids until im atleast 28 and some of our goals has been met unless god comes up with other plans for us and we are happy with those to. So for now I miss everyone from church and wish we had more moments together and I'm sry it took me so long to open up. I knew that I would be leaving in two years so its hard to make friends when you know you will have to tell them bye very soon and whats harder than that making friends before that and having to tell them bye and you not even really getting to know them. We have had fun for sure during small groups, the parties, and during sunday school when we weren't late. I thank all of you for being there for us and I am sorry we weren't able to become better friends. Sara chica I'm going to miss you to the moon and back when I even think about you or Micah my eyes fill full of tears. You have become my best friend and not because Mike was in the army but because of God's will and that I'm not the average Jo's wife. Oh I can't forget about one of the love's of my life name prince. Well he is staying with people I use to work with and they aren't treating him bad and they aren't treating him good. I see the way she treats her dogs so I know that she woudl treat mine the same but at the same time I am unable to really have any control over that. So I love my prince and so worried that there will be something bad happen to him in that home and we are working on finding him a place to stay at this pint we don't have any other choice. So I ask for prayer for my dog prince that the lady is nice to him and doesn't harm him. and a Praise that everything has come together so nicely during our move. everyone has just pithed in and said hey we can help we are so grateful and can never repay all of ya'lls generosity. Good bye for now I dont know if you will hear from until I am in Hawaii.

I Love Him- Kattie

Monday, October 8, 2007

Update

Well here goes. I havent wrote in a while because I have been an emotional wreck. It is crazy watching people pack your house and you loading the Uhaul. Living with friends and nothaving your own place. We are very grateful for our friends that have opened their home up to us. I only have about a week and half to go. I survived my last small group I didnt cry I almost did but held it back. It is just going by so fast so so fast. I was distant from people for so long and now that I am finally making friends I dont want to go. I thank all of you who have been there during this emotional transition. The hardest thing is going to be on the 18th when we say goodbye or see ya later. I looked around the room last night as Jeff said it was my last sunday, and I so wanted to cry but I new I had to be strong. So I had a doctor's appointment this morning and found out some info that wasn't very pleasant. Apparently I have plycystic ovaries syndrome. This challenges us to have children, menstral cycles and all sorts of stuff. It is good to know this before we start to have children. Well, I'm nervous about next thursday I'm not ready to say goodbye to our small group, class, or anyone at church...As the days get shorter my emotions get shorter as it seems. I am grateful to be able to see everyone before I leave. I hope that people really do come visit. Well my brain hurts so good night for now..
I love him-Kattie